everybody leaves everybody when everybody grows old...
this is the total cruel and sad truth...
my grandmother was admitted to hospital again last friday...heart attack...pelvis pain....leg pain.....old age....
she did not pull thru this time....
08:27:43am, i received a call from the hospital "pls come to the hospital now, ur grandmother is in critical condition..." i was half awake....
she did not wait...."girl, ah ma is gone..."
by the time i reached the hospital, she had left....her stomache was bloated...her whole body was bloating....the doctor told us that they were trying to save her, and they pump in oxygen and gave her injection....everybody was in tears....my grandaunt was shouting for her to wake up...my mum was telling her that my aunty will take care of her fav son....my uncle...all of us wanted her to leave in peace....no one wants her to carry worries in her last journey...
the rest of the day was logistics matters and ritual proceedings....
everything happens with a purpose....now i understand why i had a late meeting on thursday nite, that kris had to suggest skipping gym,....it gave me a chance to buy my grandma her fav fried fish rice for dinner....
my last consolation had to be my last chance to buy her dinner last nite and gaving her the last massage on her painful leg before i left the hospital...
may u rest in peace grandma....it has been nice being ur grand-daughter.....we will meet agn someday....
my grandmother was admitted to hospital again last friday...heart attack...pelvis pain....leg pain.....old age....
she did not pull thru this time....
08:27:43am, i received a call from the hospital "pls come to the hospital now, ur grandmother is in critical condition..." i was half awake....
she did not wait...."girl, ah ma is gone..."
by the time i reached the hospital, she had left....her stomache was bloated...her whole body was bloating....the doctor told us that they were trying to save her, and they pump in oxygen and gave her injection....everybody was in tears....my grandaunt was shouting for her to wake up...my mum was telling her that my aunty will take care of her fav son....my uncle...all of us wanted her to leave in peace....no one wants her to carry worries in her last journey...
the rest of the day was logistics matters and ritual proceedings....
everything happens with a purpose....now i understand why i had a late meeting on thursday nite, that kris had to suggest skipping gym,....it gave me a chance to buy my grandma her fav fried fish rice for dinner....
my last consolation had to be my last chance to buy her dinner last nite and gaving her the last massage on her painful leg before i left the hospital...
may u rest in peace grandma....it has been nice being ur grand-daughter.....we will meet agn someday....
